Relationship status: It's complicated


Elizabeth EdwardsAsked if she is still in love with her husband, Elizabeth Edwards told Oprah Winfrey "that's a complicated question."

And when Winfrey asked about marriage, Edwards said, "Neither one of us is out the door so I guess it's day by day, but maybe it's month-by-month."

Edwards' appearance on Oprah Thursday marks her most extensive public comments since former Democratic presidential candidate and U.S. Sen. John Edwards acknowledged an affair last summer, Jim Morrill reports.

Winfrey interviewed both Edwards at their sprawling, 28,000-foot Chapel Hill home. Her publicists released a partial transcript Tuesday of what they called "a no-holds-barred conversation, where no topic is off limits."

More after the jump.

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Edwards also talked about the child of her husband's mistress and her own struggle with terminal cancer. The broadcast airs Thursday.

It will come a day before the release of Elizabeth Edwards' new book, "Resilience," in which she describes her reaction to her husband's admission of an affair with former campaign worker Rielle Hunter.

"I cried and screamed," she wrote. "I went to the bathroom and threw up."

In the TV interview, Elizabeth Edwards told Winfrey that she'd only asked her husband for one gift when they married 31 years ago.

"What was that?" Winfrey asked.

"I wanted him to be faithful to me," Edwards replied. "It was enormously important to me."

The two also discussed Hunter's year-old daughter, Frances Quinn Hunter.

"There is great speculation that your husband John Edwards is the father of that baby," Winfrey said.

"That’s what I understand," Edwards replied. "I've seen a picture of the baby. I have no idea. It doesn't look like my children but I don't have any idea."

John Edwards has denied he’s the father. A former campaign aide, Andrew Young, has said he is.

Elizabeth Edwards, whose oldest son died at 16 and who is fighting terminal cancer, was asked about her mortality.

"It's not as frightening," she said. "If there's an ever after — please, please, please — I would be leaving part of my family, but I can … join another party, and wait for that day when we're all together again. In some ways it's something you yearn for."

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Re: Relationship status: It's complicated

Gosh, watch the personal attacks.

— RTB

Re: Relationship status: It's complicated

Was this the first time Johnny cheated on Elizabeth?

Re: Relationship status: It's complicated

Ryan, didn't she cover up her husband's cheating on her during his run for the presidency? Why didn't you mention that?

Re: Relationship status: It's complicated

Free advertising for the book...

Re: Relationship status: It's complicated

But, Ryan, let's admit it --- she would not be either an author or a health advocate --- doubtful that she would be published or anyone would give a rip about what she says about health care, if she wasn't married to John Edwards. The both of them have capitalized on their way more than 15 minutes of fame.

Both of the Edwards just need to fade away and deal with their personal issues. I'm just tired of them and anything they have to say. What's worse is that they are leaving a lovely set of articles for their children to have, detailing their marital mess. It would be bad enough to be a small child with a gravely ill mother. But, it is worse to be a small child whose friends get to read about the whole tragic mess in the newspaper or by watching Oprah. Are both of these people so seriously self-centered that they can't see that?

This isn't political on my part. I usually think of myself as a Democrat, but both of these folks sicken me.

I'm sorry that Mrs. Edwards is sick, but she also kept up this whole silly charade, which wasn't good for the Democratic party.

Re: Relationship status: It's complicated

Oh, RTB, you don't get any love from the readers, do you?

Re: Relationship status: It's complicated

Your beef today, then, is with Oprah and Edwards herself. 

— RTB 

Re: Relationship status: It's complicated

My apologies. She is an author and a health advocate. I guess I missed that part of her background since all of your posts seem to focus on her love life rather than her work as an author or as a health advocate.

Re: Relationship status: It's complicated

She is a nationally known author and health care advocate who lives in Chapel Hill. I submit that describing her only as the "wife of a former politician" is a bit of an understatement.

— RTB 

Re: Relationship status: It's complicated

You seem to spend a lot of time blogging about this particular wife of a former politician. It seems weird.