What a dork! Abstinence works IF YOU FOLLOW THE RULES! No birth control works if you ignore the rules. I'm sure your son appreciated this comment about as much as I did.
Or because he had sex with a female without using birth control.
I would like to think that the reason you have a 42 year old son is that God knew what he was doing.
Re: Faison's son
Abstinence didn't work for Adam & Eve. It's been downhill ever since.